darth- My first post JW tree was a small white one that had silver balls, pink lights, silver and pink ribbon for garland and a pink snowman topper.
It was gorgeous! Since my husband is still an active Witness, we waited until he went to spend a few days with his parents to put it up and took it down before he got home. It was so worth it, the next year we went with a larger green tree and put it up earlier... husband was NOT happy but the tree stayed.
He did blow us in to the Elders, but they haven't done anything because we hadn't been to meetings in a couple years and we let them know how much their lack of love affected us. One actually had tears in his eyes talking to us about our feelings about our treatment by the congregation. I hope he wakes up.
I will try and post a picture of the tree if I can find it.